Rambles from my Chair

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Father Daughter Date Night

I take Nalani, my 10 year old little girl, on a special date every year and recently started going out once or twice a month. I’ve been doing this since she was 7 years old and I plan on doing it until Jesus takes me off of this planet.

WHY FATHER DAUGHTER DATE NIGHT?

It’s important for me to be a major influence in my daughter’s life. I want her to feel connected, loved, safe and special to me. I want her to feel like she can talk to me, even though I know she will choose not to at times and the only way I can do that is by investing as much time into her as I can right now .I want her to grow up and look back and see that I’ve always desired to spend time with her no matter how crazy or hectic our lives were, I always made time to spend with just her.

WHAT DO YOU DO?

Before anything else, make the time a priority. Dads, if you are not intentional about it then it will never happen. No father accidently spends time with their kids.

1)      Nalani is now 10 it’s just now getting to where it isn’t weird. It is a little awkward to sit with them and watch them eat when you’re out. You have no idea what to talk about, you have no idea what is going on in their minds, you can’t discuss current events with them. It’s weird. But it’s really worth pushing through the weirdness because one day, when they are able to have a conversation, you won’t be a stranger because you’ve always been there.

2)      When Nalani and I are out and about and spending time together, that’s what we do, spend time together. Don’t allow people to corner you and begin talking to you about the “good old days” or get caught up with hanging out with the boys. Be a soldier when it comes to protecting the time with your daughter and I do not ever want her to feel second place to anything or anyone else. One more thing on this…we always speak to people on our date if they chat with us. I want to teach Nalani how to meet new people and be kind.

3)      No cell phone. Dads, sitting in a restaurant with your kid and talking on a cell phone, texting or being on facebook/twitter is not spending time with them!

Just a few of the why’s and how’s that have worked for me. I am nowhere near being the perfect dad; On most days I struggle in my mind with whether or not I am doing a good job. But God’s call on my life is to be a follower of Him, a husband, and a dad – in that order.

Dad’s… Don’t waste those early years with your kids! Take hold of them!

Exercise For Life!

As a trainer at Ultimate Training Center and becoming more knowledgable in fitness and nutrition, I’ve come to understand a few things i would like to share with you.

The Myth

Most of the people that I have met are truly clueless about exercise,
and I bet you may be too. Here is a quick question to check your exercise IQ:
True
or false? Overweight people who are physically fit (defined below) are better off
than
thin people who rarely or never exercise.
If you are like most people, you
think
this statement is false! Sorry, but that big guy riding his bike to work every day
is
lapping you if your idea of exercise is turning off the TV by hand instead of using
the
remote—even if you look like a model.

Exercise For Life

Being overweight is a huge problem in the US, but just as problematic is our
disregard for regular exercise and what it can do for you if done well. Fit people
have
less depression and rate their quality of life consistently higher. They sleep
better
too. Fit people, compared to inactive people, have fewer heart attacks and strokes
and
are more likely to survive if they do have one. Regular exercise leads to longer
life
on average (comparatively)—and not just longer, better too.

So maybe you just remembered you have a new pair of running shoes that you got
for
Christmas… from 2004, and they still look brand new. Don’t
worry,
it’s never too late to start. But are there biblical reasons why
we
(especially stressed out christians) should stay fit? Yes, and here is why:

  1. Paul wrote to the church in Corinth that our body is
    God’s
    temple where his Spirit dwells (1 Cor. 6:19)
  2. Our bodies are members of Christ and should not be abused (1 Cor 6:15)
  3. Our body is not our own, it is God’s. How dare we desecrate
    it
    on purpose? (1 Cor 6:19-20)

Practically speaking, what kind of person doesn’t want to
have
less depression, better sleep, and more happiness?

3 Wrong Reasons to Avoid Exercise

There are many great reasons to exercise, but our sin drives us to the couch
instead
of the gym, in several ways:

  1. Laziness.Pick your Proverb here. We ignore what we know is
    best
    for us.
  2. Ignorance.Not finding out for ourselves what we need to do
    to
    stay fit.
  3. Self-righteous busyness. You know the drill: I just have
    more
    important things to do, and I’ll sacrifice this area for my
    family
    and church.

6 Tips to Get Started Exercising

Here are some tips to help you get started.

  1. Experts say you only need four 30-minute workout sessions a week, especially
    if
    they are effective. (www.UltimateTrainingCenter.com)
  2. You do not have to qualify for the Boston Marathon to be healthy and get all
    the
    benefits listed above.
  3. Miserable, difficult, expensive routines will be dropped every
    time
    . Pick a plan you enjoy. (www.UltimateTrainingCenter.com)
  4. Break a sweat, get your heart rate up, and stay at it for at least 30 minutes
    per
    session. Walking fast is great; it’s cheap, efficient and
    accessible to almost all people.
  5. Exercise is good for you even if you don’t lose weight!
  6. If you are over age 40, or younger with health problems, talk to your
    doctor
    prior to starting an exercise routine.

Take it from the some one who’s been there. A little bit of sweat is the ounce
of
prevention you need to keep the doctor out of your life. You will see benefits
right
away, and you’ll finally take good care of the temple God has given
you to steward. 3…2…1…Go!

If you would like to talk to someone and get more information on how to get
started
in reaching your fitness goal check out www.ultimatetrainingcenter.com and
get
moving!

Love, Love, Love…

Today is that magical celebration of love we call Valentine’s
Day! Did you know that Saint Valentine’s Day was originally observed in remembrance of early
Christian martyrs who shared the name Valentine?

That might seem a long way off from what is now a day that we use to express our
feelings of love and adoration to those special people in our lives. However, you
don’t need to set aside this Tuesday to accomplish this. Use every
day to express your love and feelings, so there is never a doubt in
anyone’s mind how you feel about them.

You don’t have to wait for someone’s birthday
or Valentine’s Day to make them feel special. Think of how much
better the world would be if we all tried a little harder every day to show that we
care.

The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for
bread.
~Mother Teresa

There is no surprise more magical than the surprise of being loved. It is
God’s finger on man’s shoulder
. ~Charles
Morgan

“Don’t just pretend to love others. Really love them. Hate what is wrong.
Hold tightly to what is good.”
Romans 12:9

Failure Sucks!

I guess it depends on whose side you were pulling for
this Super bowl weekend, you’re either thrilled or a little
disappointed. It’s hard to watch the pain and hurt on an
athlete’s face as they come up short of their goal.
It’s difficult because we can all relate to that pain in our own
lives as we have all come up short on one occasion or another.(Romans 3:10)

We often forget why defeat is so painful…but when it happens we
think about all the people we let down; our families, friends, partners. All the time
you spend preparing for this one occasion and then “You blew
itâ€

One thing I’ve learned in this life lesson is that failure is a
huge part of success, you can’t have one without the other and
nothing is a more powerful teacher. Just remember that you’re past
failures and mistakes do not define you. It’s your willingness to
get up, dust yourself off and try again that shows what you are made of. There are too
many sayings and quotes to remind us how “sweet victory” is, but it is only with defeat
that winning gets its meaning.

Instruction and knowledge



Let instruction & knowledge mean more to you than silver or the finest gold.
-Proverbs 8:10

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